About time for my quarterly posting here… đ Kathy Brace and I released our book, Born to Deliver, at the end of last year, and are so encouraged at how God is using it to touch lives and bring healing. My good friend, Molly Williamson, of Imago Photography generously offered to help us put together a book trailer that we hope will serve to spread a message of hope and redemption to even more people. Here’s the wonderful result of her creative talent and work on our behalf:
The Supreme Matter of Our Lives
Several months ago, I came across this post, Depend on God Daily, by the Kansas director of The Navigators ministry, Richard Spann. I have returned to it several times and finally just printed the whole thing off tonight to keep in my journal for regular reflection. I’ve spent considerable time wrestling and praying this year about how to keep up with many responsibilities and tasks on a daily basis, so Mr. Spann’s recounting of what he learned from Lorne Sanny, former International Director of The Navigators, was very inspiring. I especially love this point at the end of the post:
“The Lord delights to meet our needs; however, the supreme matter to our lives is not that these issues be resolved. That is of lesser importance. The supreme matter is that in so doing, we may see the hand of the Lord; that we may come to know Him more deeply, love Him more completely, and worship Him more perfectly.”
The whole article is very encouraging and practical for anyone who is struggling to know how to handle the responsibilities and situations that are part of their daily life (and isn’t that all of us?!).
A Year of Reading in Review – 2012
Each year I like to do a brief recap of the books I’ve read. I am so grateful for the easy access we have to millions of wonderful works, and count it a great privilege to learn and grow through the writing of others. Even though reading is something I enjoy and greatly value, this year I had to put a “reading freeze” on myself at various points so that I would be more disciplined in writing Born to Deliver. So, this year’s list is a bit shorter and leans heavily toward memoirs and biographies, which are my favorite kind of book to read!
Affliction: A compassionate Christian look at understanding the reality of pain and suffering in our lives
Edith Schaeffer
This is a book I could read again and again because I love it so much! Other than the Bible, itâs the best book Iâve ever read. It has completely changed my whole outlook on life and my attitude toward difficult situations. Mrs. Schaefferâs writing is so rich and insightful, but so real, so true-to-life. From her depiction of the two museums in heaven displaying the suffering through and overcoming of every hardship through all of time, to her behind-the-scenes look at Jobâs suffering, to her recognition of the important work of every individual in whatever situation God brings their way, in every chapter the author leads the reader to a more biblical outlook on life. It is impossible to share everything that impacted me, but here is a brief quote from the beginning of the book:
âAffliction must be recognized as something we all need to deal with. There is no place to go for a vacation from the abnormality of the universe, from the effects of the Fall upon every area of life, and from the conflict of the ages. Persecution and affliction are a normal part of the Christian life. We need not be surprised or ashamed when our work, our family, our church, or our individual person is hit by some form of affliction. Satan does not fight against himself. So when those in the midst of false religions seem to be having an easier time than Christians, it should not be surprising. The criterion of living a growing, fruitful, Christian life in a close walk with the Lord is neither to be âabasedâ nor to âabound.â Both situations present temptations, but both can be places of victory.â
Then Mrs. Schaeffer goes on to help the reader understand how to get from their present state to that place of victory. Highly recommended for anyone who is dealing with pain, suffering, and affliction â and I think that pretty much includes everyone.
The Screwtape Letters
C.S. Lewis
Itâs almost embarrassing to admit that this is the first C.S. Lewis book Iâve read. Iâve had it in mind to read some of his books for years, but finally decided to pull this one off the shelves after my family made plans to attend a dramatic presentation of The Screwtape Letters later this year. I was familiar with the concept of the book where an experienced demon, Screwtape, writes a series of letters to his aspiring young nephew on how to effectively go about demonizing his assigned human. The content is amazingly insightful and fascinating. Not to mention that it leaves you feeling a bit exposed and wondering at the source of your own attitudes and behaviors. How much do our ways of life reflect the influence of the invisible, but real, world of those whose aim is to do everything within their power to turn us against God?
Common Ground Without Compromise: 25 Questions to Create Dialogue on Abortion
Stephen Wagner
After attending a short seminar by the author I was eager to get a copy of his book and learn more from his humble, yet intelligent, approach to discussing the sensitive topic of abortion with others. Chock-full of helpful information, statistics, and practical tools, I finished feeling better educated about abortion and inspired to apply the principles in many different conversation settings. Iâve always loved conversing with people and asking them questions, but this book encouraged me to be more mindful of my approach and how I respond to others with whom I disagree. The information is well-documented with an extensive section of endnotes and is a great starting point for gaining a deeper understanding of abortion and/or learning principles for effective conversation skills.
This short biography was a gift from some friends who know that I enjoy both music and inspirational life stories. The book seems to be written on a fairly young level and sometimes seems disjointed. No doubt itâs hard to collect and organize information for someone who became a captive in the concentration camps of Communist Russia, but the insertion of chapter âinterludesâ to explain certain historical elements could have been woven into the storyline in a more artful manner. Nevertheless, I did enjoy reading and learning about the life of this prominent musician and was inspired by his perspective that even the darkest situations in life can be embraced as part of Godâs calling.
My Life Without God
William J. Murray
Since my Dad is from Maryland, I remember hearing him talk about infamous atheist, Madalyn Murray OâHair, who successfully fought the battle to have prayer and Bible reading removed from Americaâs government schools in 1963. In this book her son, William, tells the story of his destructive and dysfunctional family life growing up. The writing is mildly graphic, but paints a vivid picture of the horrific lifestyle that entrapped the author well into his adult life. Itâs amazing to realize what a far-reaching impact one woman can have in her family and country. The book barely touches the authorâs conversion to Christianity in the last two chapters. Even though he was only 33 at the time, you feel like youâve read an entire life story by the time you get to that point! Itâs a captivating and well-written autobiographical account that is especially eye-opening for those of us who grew up in Christian homes with loving parents.
Three short biographical sketches are packed with poignant stories and quotes from the lives of John Bunyan, William Cowper, and David Brainerd. I was familiar with two of the men, but learned a great deal about them and the reality of their struggles from this short book. Here are a few thoughts from or pertaining to each of them:
âLet me beg of thee, that thou wilt not be offended either with god, or men, if the cross is laid heavy upon thee. Not with God, for he doth nothing without a cause, nor with men, forâŚthey are the servants of God to thee for good. Take therefore what comes to thee from God by them, thankfully.â ~John Bunyan
âWhat shall we learn from the life of William Cowper? The first lesson is this: We fortify ourselves against the dark hours of depression by cultivating a deep distrust of the certainties of despair.â ~John Piper, in reference to William Cowper
âWhen I really enjoy God, I feel my desires of him the more insatiable, and my thirstings after holiness the more unquenchableâŚOh, for holiness! Oh, for more of God in my soul! Oh, this pleasing pain! It makes my soul press after GodâŚOh, that I might never loiter on my heavenly journey!â ~David Brainerd
In Godâs Underground: Eyewitness Tetimony of Godâs Presence Amidst the Horror of Communist Prisons
Richard Wurmbrand
Itâs amazing how your perspective on daily life can change when you read a book like this. Richard Wurmbrand and the others imprisoned with him by the Romanian Communists suffered in ways more horrific than I can bring myself to repeat. And yet he viewed his time in prison as a calling from God, embracing it, and looking for every opportunity to share Christ with others. The book is a collection of experiences, interlaced with rich spiritual insights and analogies that Reverend Wurmbrand used when debating with those who held other philosophies or religious beliefs. He managed to retain a great sense of humor, as the following anecdote of him refusing to answer questions by the prison authorities reveals:
ââIf you donât answer properly, weâll have you stretched on the rack.â The machine used last in England for forced confessions 300 years ago had been added to the Partyâs weapons of persuasion! I said, âIn St. Paulâs Epistle to the Ephesians it is written that we must strive to reach the measure of the stature of Christ. If you stretch me on the rack youâll be helping me to fulfill my purpose.ââŚI was not ârackedâ; instead, we went back to the Inquisition, to the bastinado.â
I was so encouraged by Reverend Wurmbrandâs attitude of faith and joy to embrace whatever circumstances God brings into my life, and to look for every opportunity to share the love of Christ with those around me.
Through My Eyes
Tim Tebow with Nathan Whitaker
In our post-homeschool conference discussions, my mom and dad kept suggesting that we invite Tim Tebow to come be one of our teachers at Adventures In Character next year. Both of them had read his biography and knew that he loved working with children, so they were sure he would jump at the offer. J Iâve been wanting to read his book for a while, so with my curiosity sufficiently piqued, I gave myself a half a day off and sequestered myself on the couch to spend the afternoon reading. The writing style is very conversational and accessible to people of all ages. Having also grown up in a Christian homeschooling family, I found myself relating to Timâs story on more than one occasion. For someone who has already experienced so much success at a young age, I was impressed at how he handled his story, intentionally deflecting praise to others and maintaining a positive tone throughout. I came away from the book inspired by the obvious focal points â a drive to work hard and live life to the fullest for the glory of God with whatever platform He gives. But I was also touched by the more subtle, yet integral, aspects of the Tebow family relationships and Timâs attitude of respect and a teachable spirit toward others. Itâs exciting to see God raising up a generation of young people who are passionately serving Him in many fields! I hope that Tim Tebow will continue to be a courageous voice that will inspire many more to live âin the arenaâŚmarred by dust and sweat and bloodâŚ[striving] valiantlyâŚ[spending] himself in a worthy causeâ (to borrow from Theodore Roosevelt: http://www.theodore-roosevelt.com/trsorbonnespeech.html).
Here is one of my favorite paragraphs, and one that reflects an overarching theme of the book:
âAs great as that was, how much greater will it feel when we get to heaven and Jesus takes off his headset, opens up His arms, gives us a big hug, and says, âAtta boy. Great job. You finished. I love you.â I talk to kids about that all the time â finishing strong. Itâs great for football. You have to finish in football; you have to learn how to finish in the weight room, through the line, finishing a spring; everything gets hard. Finish. Eventually some people are going to stop, some people are going to quite, and some people are going to start going slower, but the people who can finish and finish at the same pace or stronger than when they started, those are the ones who are going to succeed; those are the ones who are going to be great. Those are the ones who are going to have an impact in this world and on the lives of others around them. How much more so in life to finish strong. For yourself. For the world. For others. For the God who created you.”
If
Amy Carmichael
A short, but convicting collection of statements calling Christians to a deeper understanding of the love of God and its application in our lives.
Color Outside the Lines: A Revolutionary Approach to Creative Leadership
Howard Hendricks
A fascinating, creative, inspiring, and practical book that I highly recommend to anyone who wants their life to be more meaningful and creative! Especially those in leadership and/or teaching positions in businesses, organizations, ministries, and schools will benefit from Dr. Hendricksâ insights and suggestions. Far from a one-time read, this is a book that youâll want to have close on hand to refer to over and over again to stimulate new ideas and solutions for specific needs. One of the most interesting aspects of creativity that I gleaned from Color Outside the Lines is the importance of divergent thinking â being able to see beyond the designated purpose of an object or item to consider less-obvious uses and possibilities. This is a great exercise for building creative thinking skills and developing new approaches that can lead to greater success!
A Lineage of Grace: Five Stories of Unlikely Women Who Changed Eternity
Francine Rivers
A Lineage of Grace profiles the lives of Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, Bathsheba, and Mary with imaginative and fictional stories created by the author. Sometimes the accounts seem overly romanticized and probably more true to modern western thinking than historic Jewish culture. It is helpful, though, to remember that these biblical women were real people. Itâs also a good reminder that God uses the humble, lowly, sinful ones among us to be part of His overarching plan of redemption.
Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books
Azar Nafisi
This book came highly recommended, so I plunged into it, eager to learn more about the life of this Iranian woman and the Western literature that was so much a part of her own internal revolution. Set in the time following the Iranian revolution, one does get an inside look at life in Iran, especially for women, and especially for those in the universities. The style of writing was choppier than I prefer, and it seemed to move somewhat slowly. Nevertheless, itâs always fascinating to gain a better understanding of different cultures, and books like Reading Lolita in Tehran provide a way to do that in a more personal context.
He Heard Hannah
Lynnette Kraft with Courtney Becker
As I told Lynnette when I saw her recently, the first time I picked this book up at a friendâs house, I skimmed the beginning of it, but didnât make it past the few references to country living. Not being much into goats and chickens myself, I didnât make a point to get a copy for myself. However, when she contacted me to ask if I would consider reviewing it for her, I agreed. I took it on our family trip during Thanksgiving, thinking it would provide some good reading for the bulk of the trip. I was wrong. Instead of lasting for the whole trip, as soon as I picked it up to start reading one night, I couldnât put it down, so it only lasted one night! Guess sheâll have to keep writing more books! J With that lengthy intro out of the wayâŚHe Heard Hannah is an incredible story of God at work in two different families through unique experiences that eventually led to them crossing paths. Their first encounter centered on the traumatic occasion of the death of the Kraftâs daughter, Anna, and Courtney Beckerâs role as the 9-1-1 operator who took the call. The book beautifully weaves together both stories, and documents so many remarkable parallels that readers canât help but see the Sovereignty of a loving God constantly in motion orchestrating the details of our lives for our good and to accomplish His eternal purposes.
Revelations of a Single Woman: Loving the Life I Didn’t Expect
Connally Gilliam
A friend mentioned this book to me several years ago after hearing the author on a radio program. I made a mental note of it, but didnât pursue it because I usually try to avoid reading books on singleness and relationships. Basically, Iâd rather focus on other things than my relationship status, as I find that the latter tends to be more depressing than helpful. However, another friend gave me a copy of this book recently, thinking I might appreciate it as a single young woman, so I decided to give it a try. Even though the authorâs experience is significantly different than my own, I could still relate to some of the same social and emotional challenges that go with the territory. I appreciate her effort to include readers from a wide variety of religious backgrounds, but it seemed to make some of her points a bit wishy-washy. That said, she does come across in a very real and sincere way that will resonate with many single young women.
The Cost of Discipleship
Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Ever since reading the remarkable Bonhoeffer biography by Eric Metaxas last year, Iâve been eager to read more of Bonhoefferâs own writings. Discipleship is of particular interest to me, so I decided to start with this book. As was alluded to in the biography, the book deals not primarily with the concept of discipleship in regards to discipling others, but primarily with the individualâs role and responsibilities as a disciple of Christ. I copied down many excerpts from various chapters, but especially appreciated Bonhoefferâs insights on the Body of Christ, and the Church as a Visible Community. I love this statement that he makes about bearing fruit as a disciple: âFruit is always the miraculous, the created; it is never the result of willing, but always a growth. The fruit of the Spirit is always a gift of God, and only he can produce it. They who bear it know as little about it as the tree knows of its fruit. They know only the power of him on whom their life depends. There is no room for boasting here, but only for an ever more intimate union with him.â
The Glass Castle: A Memoir
Jeannette Walls
A friend recommended this book to me multiple times, so I finally ordered it through a local bookstore, and had it read within a week! A fascinating read, this New York Times bestselling memoir, documents a childhood very different than anything in my sphere of familiarity. The text is riddled with swearing and several sexually explicit encounters, but obviously paints a raw picture of the authorâs experiences growing up. Whether on-the-run, dwelling in the middle of the desert, bucking societal conventions in the city, or taking up residence in a backcountry shack without indoor plumbing, Rex and Rose Mary Walls aim to convince their four children that their life is normal and full of adventure. But one can only accept an alter-reality for so long. The Glass Castle is an enlightening look at an apparently poverty-stricken family, and shockingly reveals that in contrast to commonly accepted stereotypes, sometimes those living in poverty lack neither education nor wealth.
Born to Deliver
Kathy Brace with Natalie Wickham
After nearly two years of work, by God’s grace Kathy and I completed this book and released it on November 20. I am so excited that God brought us together to work on this project. Kathy’s story is an incredible account of God’s love and redemption, one that I hope will touch the hearts and lives of many readers for generations to come!
Read A Year of Reading in Review from previous years: 2007 | 2008 | 2009 | 2010 | 2011
Make Me Ready, Willing, Lord
Make me ready, willing, Lord
To sacrifice and suffer more
To send the name of Jesus forth
To every one throughout the world.
Make me faithful daily, Lord
To walk in love, my life outpoured
To speak with grace in every word
To all men kind, and none ignore.
Make me pure and holy, Lord
To be like Him whom I adore
To shine the truth till all’s restored
To dwell in joy for evermore.
Born to Deliver
Despite my best intentions, I have not done a very good job of keeping up with this blog. But it’s not for a lack of writing; it’s just that my writing efforts have been directed elsewhere. In fact, Lord-willing, they will culminate in the release of a book that I’ve co-authored with Kathy Brace called Born to Deliver.
Born to Deliver is Kathy’s story – one that has been life-changing for me, and we hope and pray it will be for many others as well. You can read chapter one for free on the website. And as of today, pre-orders are officially open, so if you’re dying to find out the rest of the story, just click the Buy Now button and you’ll receive one in your mailbox as soon as they arrive from the printer!
The Key to Enduring Suffering
It’s been over a week now since Easter, but I still find myself thinking about the resurrection of Jesus and its significance. At the end of March my friend, Tyler Hiebert, organized a debate in which he and an atheist addressed the question, “Did Jesus rise from the dead?” It was fascinating to watch and listen to each of their arguments. But more than anything, I realized how much the Christian faith hinges on the question of whether or not Jesus did or did not rise from the dead.
In the following days as I pondered the resurrection and what it means, one verse in particular kept coming to mind:
“…looking unto Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.”
~Hebrews 12:2
Jesus knew that He was going to rise from the dead. He told His disciples as much several times during their three years of ministry together. This may not be all that the “joy that was set before him” encompasses, but knowing that you would rise from the dead to eternal life would sure bring an incredible amount of joy! Enough to make it possible, I think to endure whatever suffering and humiliation was inflicted upon you during your present temporary life.
This, in turn, gives a whole new perspective to everyone who has Jesus Christ dwelling in them. We have been promised eternal life in Him, and when He comes again, our earthly body will be exchanged for a heavenly one that will live eternally:
“Behold! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed. For this perishable body must put on the imperishable, and this mortal body must put on immortality. When the perishable puts on the imperishable, and the mortal puts on immortality, then shall come to pass the saying that is written: ‘Death is swallowed up in victory.'”
~1 Corinthians 15:51-54
It is this knowledge of a future resurrection to eternal life that serves as the same “joy that is set before us” to enable us to endure any suffering, any shame in our temporary bodies on this earth. What a difference it makes in the trials of every day – however big or small they may be – to remind myself of this simple, but profound truth!
Truly, the resurrection of Jesus Christ means everything. It affirms the power of God over death and guarantees us an eternal joy for which we can endure any pain, suffering, and rejection in this life. In light of this rich reality, let’s embrace Paul’s subsequent exhortation:
“Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain.”
~1 Corinthians 15:58
A Year of Reading in Review – 2011
At some point this past year it occurred to me that reading is good for my emotional well-being. For some reason I just feel happier if I am reading a good book. My all-time favorite is the Bible, and this past year I did a monthly rotation reading through Job, Ecclesiastes, and Song of Solomon. It was so rich, thought-provoking, and life-impacting! As if the everlasting, immutable Word of God could be anything but those things… đ But I also love to read a variety of other books that draw on the experience, expertise, and wisdom of others in different areas. Here’s a list of books I read last year, along with a few of my thoughts on each one:
Madame Curie: A Biography
Eve Curie
A search for a new, engaging book to read during my Christmas and New Yearâs break led me to the stocked shelves in my dadâs office. A tattered hardback with embossed lettering that read, âMadame Curie,â caught my eye. Not (Iâm now embarrassed to say) because I recognized the name, but because I thought perhaps a good story was hidden within its pages. A brief perusal of the introduction and first chapter sufficiently convinced me of the artful excellence of the author, and it became my companion for the next couple of weeks.
It was surprisingly difficult to pull myself away from the bigger-than-life story of a woman I now recognize as one of the worldâs most renowned scientists. In fact, this story did for me what no amount of curricula could accomplish growing up â it gave me an appreciation for the study of science! I am more convinced than ever that a curriculum comprised in large part of great books is one of the highest and most effective forms of education.
This extensive biography sketches a fascinating picture of the quiet, unassuming woman who, along with her husband, Pierre, is credited with the discovery of radium. Although she was the recipient of two Nobel Peace Prizes and numerous other awards and honors, the devoted scientist never became enamored with fame or notoriety. In fact, quite the contrary, as she herself expressed in her letters:
âI long for calmer days passed in a quiet place, where lectures will be forbidden and newspapermen persecutedâŚAlways a hubbub. People are keeping us from work as much as they can. Now I have decided to be brave and I receive no visitors â but they disturb me just the same. Our life has been altogether spoiled by honors and fame.â
Numerous other humorous and thoughtful anecdotes are interwoven throughout the book, generously allowing readers an in depth view of this amazing woman. I was inspired in many ways by Madame Curieâs character and the unified vision and life work she shared with her husband. Even though there is no indication that she was a Christian, itâs clear that God used her to fill an incredible role in history.
The Persecutor
Sergei Kourdakov
After soliciting biography recommendations from my friends, this is one of the first that I was able to get my hands on (thanks to the generous loan from the referrer!). Her claim that it was a riveting story held true in every respect! Although I have read numerous accounts of World War II and post-war experiences, I think this is the first story I have read from the eyes of a member of the Russian police.
A man who had attained many of the most coveted honors in the Communist regime and was destined for a high seat of power nevertheless tells of the depravity and emptiness that compelled him to escape. His journey is a long one, with much terror and destruction left in his wake as he resists the pull of God on his life. And even as he fights for freedom â spiritually and physically â in a new land, he remains a fugitive â hunted by a relentless enemy.
Will-Oâ-The-Wisp
The Baroness Orczy
This short novel made its way home with Mom during one of her thrift store excursions. Noticing that it was written by The Baroness Orczy (author of the classic, The Scarlet Pimpernel), I was intrigued. Set on the coast of France in the early 1800âs the story follows the clandestine dealings of one Le Pere Ribot, his daughter, Follette, and an officer of His Majesty (a.k.a. Emperor Napoleon) as he tries in vain to pursue her affections. The not-altogether-unpredictable love story is redeemed in part by the excellent writing of The Baroness, but still falls easily under the category of âfluffâ that provides a diversion from reality, but not much in the way of lasting value.
When People are Big and God is Small â Overcoming Peer Pressure, Codependency, and the Fear of Man
Edward T. Welch
This book was selected for our young ladies Bible study in the spring and was a wonderful tool for instruction in biblical principles and discussion with others over the areas covered. Whether you think you struggle with a fear of man versus a fear of God or not, I can pretty much guarantee that youâll find convicting truths and practical applications that you can apply to your life. Dr. Welch helps readers dig much deeper than a lot of pop psychology seems to so that you can understand the real issues underlying your attitudes and reactions. He doesnât shy away from some tough issues, but uses lots of illustrations, stories, and steps to help overcome sinful and destructive habits in our lives and relationships. I gleaned many valuable insights from this book that have already impacted my own life and opportunities I have to help others work through difficult situations. I know that will continue to prove to be the case as I refer back to it in the years to come.
Radical: Taking Back Your Faith from the American Dream
David Platt
One of my dearest friends first alerted me to this book in an e-mail, saying, â[it] is SOOOO good.â Imagine my surprise, then, when I walked upstairs later that evening and saw this very book resting on the dining room table! My sister had just finished reviewing it for a magazine and my mom was making her way through its pages. I quickly took the next place in line and was grateful when my turn to read it came around. After becoming the pastor of a mega-church at a young age, David was challenged to rethink nearly every element of how we âdo churchâ in America. This led to a drastic restructuring of priorities in his life, his family, and his church. Now, with Radical, he challenges other American Christians to embrace a global vision for spreading the gospel of Jesus Christ. He posits that too often we pass over the âradicalâ commands of Jesus â like selling everything and giving the money to the poor, or going to the ends of the earth to share the gospel with unreached people, etc. â by countering that God doesnât call everyone to do that. We forget that sometimes God does still call people to do just that. Whatâs more, God calls every Christian to make disciples of all nations. We should all be involved in sharing the gospel with people throughout the world in some context. Practical examples give inspiration, but ultimately the reader is challenged to adopt this new perspective and seek God for the particulars of how he can be involved in this global calling. Iâm excited about the possibilities and look forward to seeing how God continues to bring growth in my life in this area!
Exposed: The Life and Thoughts of a Home School Graduate
Felicia Alvarez
This quick read is a peak into the life of a Southern California girl and her familyâs journey in homeschooling. As a fellow homeschool grad, I was excited to compare my story with hers! We had much in common â trading our school room for the kitchen table, involvement in music, memorable travel experiences, teaching businesses, and more. The book is a mixture of Feliciaâs reflections and thoughts, with short vignettes of actual experiences woven throughout.
The Family Daughter
Sarah Bryant
The author kindly sent me a copy of her book as a way of saying âthank youâ for the assistance I gave her as she was working through the publication process. First off, I have to say that the book itself is beautiful! From the velvety texture of the cover to the artistic use of complementary fonts to the attractive layout of each chapter, this book goes above and beyond in its aesthetic appeal. When digesting the content of the book, it is perhaps most helpful to keep in mind the background perspective that Sarah succinctly lays out for the reader at the beginning of the book. While some might take issue with the specific application of the principles set forth, any young woman is sure to glean practical and beneficial ideas that can be implemented in her own life! I also appreciate the variety of quotes and additional resources referenced at the end of each chapter. The style of writing embodies a spirit of exhortation, and Sarahâs desire is obviously to encourage younger girls to have a heart for their families. They are the demographic that will probably be the most interested in and encouraged by it.
A Collection of Love Gifts
Helen Steiner Rice
This book of poems was a Valentineâs gift from some friends of mine. I had heard of Helen Steiner Rice, but didnât know anything about her or her work. My friends included a biographical sketch with the book that helped me gain a greater appreciation for the woman who is considered âAmericaâs beloved inspirational poet laureate.â There was nothing especially insightful about these poems, but they were sweet little reminders of Godâs love.
Dug Down Deep: Unearthing What I Believe and Why It Matters
Joshua Harris
Ever since Josh Harris first announced that he was writing this book, Iâve had it on my wish list. I finally treated myself to an Amazon order one day and had this wonderful book read within a week! My introduction to Joshâs writing came years ago when I was a subscriber of his New Attitude magazine. I have read several of his other books and was especially interested in this one because it promised to be a closer look at his background and âthe story of how [he] learned to dig into truth and build [his] life on a real knowledge of God.â I love the way he wove his own life experiences â the good, the bad, and the ugly â with foundational biblical doctrines. Even though I love to study church history and theology, even someone not previously in the habit of doing so would really enjoy the personable presentation of the variety of topics addressed in Dug Down Deep. This approach, along with Joshâs down-to-earth style of writing, makes the book an engaging read while also maintaining a depth of heart and thought in its rich content. I was challenged, convicted, and inspired!
In Godâs Image After All: How Psychology Supports Biblical Creationism
Dr. Paul D. Ackerman
A short, but powerful collection of insights from a psychologist who was an avowed atheist. I heard Dr. Ackerman speak at an apologetics seminar and was very impressed by his presentation style and the things he shared. When I found out about this book that he wrote, I was eager to get my hands on a copy. I have never studied psychology, but I find it incredibly fascinating. The illustrations, research, and insights that Dr. Ackerman shares in this book only served to further my fascination with the field! Here are a few of his thoughts that I especially appreciated:
âWe fallen creatures, far from being gods, are blown this way and that by subtle features in our surroundings of which we are not even aware.â
âAny âmeaningful selfâ we attribute to ourselves is dependent upon God. God has life in himself (John 5:26), but we have whatever life he chooses to give and maintain in us. We need God.â
âConfidence in contingency-design is an important and practical part of our faith in the kindness, mercy, and provision of our heavenly Father. If there is a problem, there must be a solution.â
This book gave me a greater appreciation for God as our Creator and the many aspects of His creation that function beneath the level of customary observation or awareness. It is both useful and awe-inspiring!
Talent to Treasure: Building a Profitable Music Teaching Business
Marcia K. Washburn
A second-generation piano teacher with many years of experience, Marcia Washburn sets out to help aspiring music teachers get started on the right foot. Many of the tips and principles she shares are ones that I had to learn the hard way! Although every teacher will have different approaches to the way they run their studio and do their teaching, Marciaâs book is sure to help new teachers think about issues that are all-too-often completely overlooked.
She covers a wide variety of topics, including: evaluating your motive for launching a music teaching business, preparing for the practical side of running a studio, establishing appropriate policies and practices, learning how to communicate effectively, and some of the nuts and bolts of what and how to teach. This is a great starting point for a teacher, and even experienced teachers will probably take away a few new ideas, tips, or insights that will help them become better teachers and business owners. I know I sure did!
The Messianic Character of American Education
Rousas John Rushdoony
An interest in education in general and American education in particular prompted me to travel through the pages of history contained in this eye-opening book. Rushdoony spends the bulk of the book sketching out the lives of those people most responsible for the establishment and development of our government education system as we know it today. This approach was incredibly effective as it allowed the reader to dig deeper than a mere collection of historical facts to unearth the philosophies and methods of these educational masterminds.
Perhaps the thing that struck me the most was how much the motivation of those highlighted in this book parallels what I have heard for years from leaders in the homeschool movement. Hereâs an example: âEducation, in its enlarged sense, is the disciplining, cultivating, and furnishing of the man, as a man, and for the particular position which he is to hold.â (Henry Barnard)
Or consider this description published in the NEA Journal in 1895, âThe ideal school is an ideal community â an embryonic democracy. We should introduce into the school what we must have in the state, and this is democracy in its pure sense. The child is not in the school to learn, not in there for mere knowledge; but he is in there to live, to learn to live â not in preparation for life so much as real living. The pupil should in school learn to live. He should there learn to put himself into life. The teacher is the leader in this community life. Self-government is the only true government. A child should be taught to live for others. We are too apt to ignore the divinity of a child.â
The school was thus made the center of life, the training ground to prepare children to be servants of the State. Education was promoted as the savior that would enable society to become essentially a utopia. Pioneers in the homeschool movement understood this undergirding philosophy and how diametrically opposed it is to a Christian worldview where the Lord Jesus Christ is the center of our lives. God designed the family to be the primary transmitter of true knowledge as parents train their children to âlove the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mightâ (Deuteronomy 6:5).
Many home educators and government school educators have the same goal in mind â to train the whole child and be the primary influencer of his thoughts and behaviors. Itâs obvious from Rushdoonyâs extensive research and documentation that the latter are working intentionally and determinedly to accomplish their goal. It would behoove us, as Christians, to understand whatâs really at stake and to work tirelessly to impart Godâs ways to the next generation!
The Quest for Meekness and Quietness of Spirit
Matthew Henry
The title of this book immediately appealed to me. Who doesnât want to embody a meek and quiet spirit? In case the desire is not already present, Matthew Henry spends the first half of the book painting an image of the nature and excellency of meekness and quietness of spirit. The more I read, the more eager I was to get to the application part where I was hoping the author would show me exactly how to attain these qualities in my own life. Even the style of writing itself seems to carry an aura of the meekness and quietness of spirit that is being discussed. It reminded me in some ways of John Bunyanâs much-loved âPilgrimâs Progressâ with the effortless and insightful interweaving of Scripture after Scripture to construct each point.
As one can imagine, the practical application didnât consist of a neat â5-Steps to Meeknessâ approach. Instead, Henry exposed attitudes and behaviors that reveal a lack of meekness, challenging the reader to repent and seek meekness. Indeed, that is perhaps the thing that was most impressed upon my heart: meekness is not something to be attained, but something to be sought. âSeek ye the Lord, all ye meek of the earth; Seek meeknessâ (Zephaniah 2:3). The author comments, âThough they were meek, and were pronounced so by him that searches the heart, yet they must seek meekness.â There were many other nuggets of wisdom to be gleaned from the pages of this book and I find myself already turning back through the pages for reflection and assimilation into my own life.
Lord, Send Me (now Send Me, Lord Jesus)
Christina Grubb
A sweet friend of mine sent me this copy of her first published work of non-fiction â an account of her experiences serving as a missionary in India. Itâs always exciting to get to know friends in a deeper way through their writing, and I appreciate Christinaâs open and gracious spirit that comes through her writing. Any romanticized views of missionary life in India were quickly overshadowed by some of the struggles she faced. In particular, it was eye-opening to see how much the people you work with as fellow missionaries can impact your entire experience. For Christina, the impact was a less-than-positive one, eventually resulting in her return to America. It seems clear that God has given her a heart and passion for the people of India, though, so perhaps He will one day soon send her again, this time with more experience, discernment, and wisdom âunder her belt.â
Choosing to SEE: A Journey of Struggle and Hope
Mary Beth Chapman
I remember hearing about this book almost as soon as it came out and have been eagerly anticipating reading it ever since. Having heard of the tragic accidental death of the Chapmanâs little adopted Chinese daughter when it happened, I knew the Mary Bethâs story would be heartfelt and insightful. I was not disappointed on either count. Mary Bethâs style of writing is very real and personable. It has you laughing one minute, gasping the next, and then wiping tears from your eyes. But in it all, she points the reader continually to Jesus Christ and His sufficiency in every situation.
The aspect of the story that was mostly indelibly impressed upon my heart was the emotional openness that the Chapmanâs exhibited, especially in regard to their son, Will, who was responsible for the accidental death of his little sister. They didnât downplay it or sweep it under the rug, assuming he would get over it on his own. Instead they talked about it openly, encouraged the support and prayers of friends, and acknowledged how incredibly difficult it would be for him to get past the experience. In a day when so many Christians plaster on a smile and pretend like everything is okay, it was both refreshing and convicting to see the value in an emotional openness that is honest about our deep inner struggles. For in the vulnerability of this openness, we are also enabled to receive the comfort, love, and support we need from the Lord and His people.
Everyday Life in Ancient Rome
Lionel Casson
This book first intrigued me several years ago when I came across it while browsing the shelves of a local bookstore. My upcoming trip to Italy this summer was the impetus I needed to order it and work my way through it. As you read it, you are transported to the streets of the center of one of the most powerful empires the world has ever known. The author discusses a variety of topics and includes illustrations and quotes to make the ancient world come alive to the modern reader. There was a bit of redundancy between chapters, but I enjoyed the history gleaned from the book and made sure to jot down the places that I wanted to visit!
Journey of a Thousand Miles: My Story
Lang Lang with David Ritz
A fellow piano teacher recommended this autobiography of world famous pianist, Lang Lang, at a music teachers association meeting. It was a quick read, but wow was it fascinating! I had absolutely no idea the kind of dedication and work that lies behind some of the young prodigies that emerge on the world scene. According to Lang Lang, in China it is everything to be Number One. Propelled by his fatherâs obsessive drive and his motherâs enduring love, thatâs the pianist that Lang Lang was destined to be ever since winning his first competition at the age of five: Number One.
As a piano teacher, it was interesting to read of the different personalities of Lang Langâs teachers and how they impacted him â either positively or negatively. Even in the cruel, critical world of competitive piano playing, Lang Lang blossomed and enjoyed music the most when his teacher, while highly qualified, was encouraging and cared about him as a person. Even though Lang Lang suffered at times because of his fatherâs indefatigable pressure to be Number One, I appreciated his desire to honor him and reconcile their differences. He also acknowledges that he wouldnât be who he is today were it not for his father. Lang Langâs story paints a vivid picture of what it looks like to be wholly devoted to a cause. Even though I love playing the piano, I am mindful that ultimately my cause is Jesus Christ. I am inspired to make my devotion to Him more of a living reality every day.
Preparing to Be a Help Meet
Debi Pearl
I donât even remember what prompted me to pick this book up to skim through it one night because I donât usually read marriage-centered books, but I was immediately captivated. So much so that I ended up staying up well into the night reading through almost the whole book. As my sisters and I traveled out of town the following day, I read them a chapter and other portions of the book that I found particularly inspiring. Even though I question some of the authorâs points, I finished the book feeling both a renewed anticipation at the prospect of marriage and a vision for using the single years I have to fully invest myself in the work the Lord has given me to do. Perhaps more than anything, Mrs. Pearlâs insights and stories have compelled me to pray more faithfully for the guys in my life, upholding them before the Lord as a sister who wants to see them rise up to be godly husbands, fathers, and leaders in the world.
Three friends and I read this book aloud together as we traveled through Italy this summer. To be honest, for the first four chapters I was appalled at the statements the author was making. They seemed to fly in the face of everything Iâve ever believed about praying and seeking Godâs will for important â and even not-so-important â life decisions. But as we read chapter five, the proverbial light bulb came on in my mind. In reality, Mr. DeYoung was advocating a biblical truth that I believe with all my heart, but he applied it to this topic of following the will of God in a way that was quite enlightening. The truth? Itâs neatly summed up in Matthew 6:33, âBut seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.â Instead of defining the will of God by the external path we take in life, it is more biblical to pursue the will of God as a relationship with Him through Jesus Christ that transcends every choice we make. Rather than being caught up in making the ârightâ decision, we should invest our time and energy into seeking the Lord with all our heart, knowing that to the extent that our relationship with Him is right, the path we take in life will also be right.
Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy
Eric Metaxas
A friend of mine was reading this book and kept expressing how much he loved it, so as soon as he finished I was eager to read it for myself. I was not disappointed! This is a masterfully written biography of arguably one of the most important Christian thinkers/writers/activists during World War II. The authorâs tendency to reference future events sometimes seemed like a bit of a spoiler, but I can appreciate what a monumental task it is to weave so much information about the subject, his family, and his time in history into a cohesive and captivating story. I loved reading more about Bonhoefferâs early family life, and, as a musician myself, it was neat to read of his appreciation for the arts and music. Bonhoefferâs views and words have often been taken out of context over the years, as Mr. Metaxas makes clear. Even though it seems like sometimes the picture he paints of Bonhoeffer is a larger-than-life image, I thoroughly enjoyed reading much of Bonhoefferâs original writings and seeing the depth of thought and biblical analysis that he put into understanding what was going on in the world and determining how to respond to it. Itâs a bit lengthy, but this is one of my favorite of Bonhoefferâs quotes from the book:
ââBe wise as serpents and innocent as dovesâ is a saying of Jesus (Matt. 10:16). As with all of his sayings, it is he himself who interprets it. No one can look at God and at the reality of the world with undivided gaze as long as God and the world are torn apart. Despite all efforts to prevent it the eyes still wander from one to the other. Only because there is one place where God and the reality of the world are reconciled with each other, at which God and humanity have become one, is it possible there and there alone to fix oneâs eyes on God and the world together at the same time. This place does not lie somewhere beyond reality in the realm of ideas. It lies in the midst of history as a divine miracle. It lies in Jesus Christ the reconciler of the world.â
When a Manâs a Man
Harold Bell Wright
A quick, fiction read, this story is set in the Old West and extols the virtue of true manhood and womanhood. The context is a mysterious stranger who shows up to work at an Arizona ranch and continually leaves the more experienced hands astounded at his willingness to take on the most difficult exploits for the sake of proving his own character. The truth about his past and his real identity is gradually exposed, but not before he is forced to endure the hardest test of all â sacrificing his own reputation for the sake of those he aims to honor and protect.
This Great Salvation
Robin Boisvert and C.J. Mahaney
This brief study was the selection for a fall Bible study in which one of my sisters and I participated. The authors do a good job of using personal illustrations, biblical insights, and a variety of quotes to cover the topic of justification. Chapter titles include: This Great Salvation, Does Anyone Believe in Sin?, The Holiness of God, The Wrath of God, Justified by Christ, and The Fruits of Justification. Each chapter concludes with a list of discussion questions, and there are several additional study suggestions within each chapter for those who want to dig a little deeper into each topic that is covered.
My Life with the Great Pianists
Franz Mohr with Edith Schaeffer
This book is a natural appeal for pianists, but I think it would be equally inspirational for anyone who is devoted to maximizing their impact in their given field for the glory of Jesus Christ. Some of the finer details about pianos and tuning may be lost on the non-musical reader, but the real message from this concert technician is how one person, by being skillful in their field, can gain an audience with many to make an eternal investment in their lives. I was reminded often of Proverbs 22:29, âDo you see a man skillful in his work? He will stand before kings; he will not stand before obscure men.â I loved the little anecdotes from Mr. Mohrâs interaction with pianists Horowitz, Rubinstein, Cliburn, Gould, and others, and I came away from the book with an even greater appreciation for the beauty of this instrument â the piano â that occupies so much of my life!
Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God
Francis Chan with Danae Yankoski
I confess that I put off reading this book for quite a while because there was such a craze surrounding it that I was reluctant to jump on the bandwagon. Nevertheless, when a friend gave me her copy to borrow, I couldnât resist. J The book was a challenging parallel to many of the things that God has been impressing on my heart this year. In a nutshell, it could probably be described as an extension of the response of Simon Peter, James, and John when Jesus called them to exchange their fishing trade to become fishers of men â âthey left everything and followed himâ (Luke 5:11). So, too, should be the response of every one of us when Jesus calls us to follow Him.
Itâs Not That Complicated: How to Relate to Guys in a Healthy, Sane, and Biblical Way
Anna Sofia & Elizabeth Botkin
My friend sat down across the table from me at a local restaurant. We exchanged a few pleasantries before I broached the subject that had prompted the dayâs lunch meeting. âHow is the situation with your guy friend going?â She looked at me, raised her eyebrows, and began, âWell…itâs complicated.â My mind immediately drifted to the ingeniously titled new book by sisters Anna Sofia and Elizabeth Botkin: âItâs Not That Complicated.â I hadnât read the book yet, but by the end of our lengthy conversation â one of many I have had this year with various friends going through relationship challenges â I couldnât help but wonder, âWhat world are they living in?!â My own previously-held view of uncomplicated relationships took quite a beating this year, so I was eager to get my hands on a copy of this new book and find out what the authors had to say.
Anna Sofia and Elizabeth are just 25 and 23 years-old, but they write with the wisdom and maturity that can only be gleaned from hours of studying Scripture and its application to life. They have an acute sense of cultural influences and address those influences with both wit and biblical truth. I especially appreciate their emphasis on cultivating the right attitudes and desires in our own hearts as a basis for maintaining appropriate and virtuous behavior toward the guys in our lives. Along with this is the essential truth that our hearts are deceitful and wicked, with no hope of righteousness apart from Jesus Christ. Even though the authorsâ perspectives will resonate most with those who come from stable Christian families, I think any young woman will be encouraged and inspired toward godly relationships if she reads this book with an open mind and a teachable heart. Since I interact quite a bit with girls from non-Christian families and/or rough past relationships, I really appreciated this point:
âSome girls fear that they will have permanent scars from mistakes they have made. They fear that part of them is gone and they can never be made whole again. But the concept of inner purity deals more with the present state of the heart, the mind, and the affections than it does with the past. What we need to be doing is developing a state of heart and mind that is self-controlled and faithful to one man. Itâs never too late to repent and do whatâs right.â
Another helpful feature of âItâs Not That Complicatedâ is the candid commentary offered by various guys throughout the book. Itâs encouraging to know that there are young men passionately serving the Lord and committed to pursuing young women who are doing likewise. I hope and pray that this book will serve as another excellent tool to inspire young people everywhere to keep their eyes on Jesus Christ, build strong friendships, and be âalways abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vainâ (1 Corinthians 15:58).
A Gospel Primer for Christians: Learning to See the Glories of Godâs Love
Milton Vincent
One of our Adventures In Character (AIC) staff members recommended this book to me after we discussed our mutual vision for make the Gospel our emphasis in next yearâs program. It is a short, but rich and power-packed 97 pages. It is best summed up in the authorâs own words in his introduction: âGod did not give us His gospel just so we could embrace it and be converted. Actually, He offers it to us every day as a gift that keeps on giving to us everything we need for life and godliness.â This is something I am coming to realize and appreciate more fully every day!
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Asking the Right Why
In reading Philippians 2 this morning, I am struck by an irony. Many people question why God allows so much pain and suffering in the world. Perhaps the more pertinent question is: Why on earth would God willingly and specifically choose the most painful and shameful method of torture and death for Himself? He could have easily ordained something far less excruciating and we would have never known…
“Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.”
~Philippians 2:5-8
What incomprehensible humility and love!
Giving Up
There were a lot of things on my mind this morning when I sat down to spend time in the Word. They were very distracting, and it took almost an hour to get through the first four chapters of Ephesians. But the Lord has taught me much about persevering in the Word so that He can use it to effectively cleanse and renew my mind.
My attention shifted immediately when I read Ephesians 5:1-2:
“Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.”
It’s not an unfamiliar concept, but just try to wrap your mind around being an imitator of God! What a daunting, yet awesome, instructive. Can we really even comprehend what that would look like? If all we had was verse one, it would probably be a lost cause. I’m sure that’s why God graciously included verse two. đ
The word “imitate” comes from the Latin “imitatus,” meaning, “to copy.” It is akin to the base of “imago.” We know from Colossians 1:15 that Jesus is “the image of the invisible God.” Thus, verse two encapsulates in Jesus Christ what it looks like for a man to imitate God. In love He gave Himself up for us as a sacrifice to God. The essence of us imitating God is the same – to give ourselves up for others as a sacrifice to God.
Paul’s admonition in Romans 12:1 to “present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God…” is brought even more to life in light of these two verses in Ephesians. If we ever wonder what it means to be a living sacrifice, the answer is seen in the life and ministry of Jesus.
If we would be imitators of God, it is manifested in giving up ourselves for others. What a great many opportunities this opens up to present an offering and living sacrifice to God every single day!
Let’s Be Disagreeable
As I finished reading the book of Acts this morning, something suddenly dawned on me. In particular, the following verse where the Jews in Rome are speaking to Paul brought a very important realization to light:
“But we desire to hear from you what your views are, for with regard to this sect we know that everywhere it is spoken against.”
Acts 28:22
Most, if not all, of Paul’s opportunities to share his testimony and the gospel of Jesus Christ came from those who opposed and/or disagreed with him.
It occurs to me that our American culture makes a god of peace by promoting agreement and tolerance, the effect of which is to silence those who would speak the truth of Jesus Christ – the only One in whom real and lasting peace with God may be found. Most Christians, including myself, cow to this pressure and go to great pains to procure acceptance and agreement from others.
How many opportunities have been lost because I have shied away from the very opposition and disagreement that could serve as a platform from which to openly proclaim the gospel of Jesus Christ?